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MY
SPOUSE AND I CANNOT COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY NOW, HOW WILL
WE BE ABLE TO MEDIATE OUR DIVORCE? |
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This is not
unusual for couples at the start, and we are trained for exactly
this kind of situation. Our skills and experience enable us
to assist our clients to work cooperatively and resolve divorce
issues successfully. We will guide and facilitate the dialogue,
assist in clarifying issues and gathering information, and
guide you step by step through the divorce process. |
| Q: |
WHAT IF MY SPOUSE
DOES NOT WANT TO MEDIATE? |
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Suggest to your
spouse that he or she call us to discuss the mediation process
before deciding that it is not an option. We will be happy to
explain the process and answer any questions your spouse may
have. |
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HOW WILL I GET
INFORMATION ABOUT MY SPOUSE’S FINANCES? |
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Full financial
disclosure is required by California law, whether you choose
mediation or decide to litigate. In mediation, you and your
spouse will sign a Mediation Agreement in which each of you
promises full disclosure to the other of all assets and debts,
income and expenses. Each spouse will, in addition, sign a statement
under penalty of perjury that all financial information has
been given to the other spouse. Finally, you and your spouse
are required to state to the Court, in your Marital Settlement
Agreement, that you have fully complied with all California
financial disclosure laws. |
| Q: |
WILL MY INTERESTS
BE PROTECTED IN MEDIATION? |
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You will make decisions
only after reviewing all the facts and discussing many options,
both in mediation and in separate sessions where we meet with
each spouse privately. You will make decisions only when you
are ready to make them.You will show your proposed agreement
to a family law attorney before making your decisions final.
You won’t sign anything until you have decided that it
is in your best interests to do so. |
| Q: |
I AM ALREADY DIVORCED.
I NEED TO MODIFY SUPPORT OR MY CHILD CUSTODY. CAN MEDIATION
HELP? |
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We often mediation
changes in court-ordered support and parenting plans, as well
as other matters that arise after divorce. Mediation is particularly
useful here because it is so much less costly and is much
faster than litigating these matters. Of course, in mediation,
you make decisions that fit your unique circumstances, rather
than having decisions imposed on you by the Court that may
not be satisfactory to either you or your former spouse. |
| Q: |
HOW MUCH DOES MEDIATION
COST? |
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We do not take
a retainer. The cost of a typical divorce mediation is usually
less than the cost of the retainer fees you and your spouse
would each have to pay to your divorce attorneys. A mediated
divorce is always substantially less costly than a litigated
divorce. |
| Q: |
HOW CAN I GET STARTED?
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You can
call us at 949.495.4700 or you can contact us by
email. |